Burnley Grammar School

Reading the comments about how much flesh should be exposed when swimming,I am from an era when brief type swimming trunks were the normal and perhaps only style of swimwear for males of all ages. I do not know why it is no longer "correct" for this style to be worn. Having just returned from a hot sunny holiday on a Spanish Island, I saw many men and boys (not British ) wearing briefs both on the beach and by the pool.
There were many British lads wearing swim shorts with underwear which seems odd The waist band clear advertised their preferred brand of underwear. Why is this? It cannot be for support because swim shorts have netting inside for that reason, and if they do not like the feel of "briefs" that is what the netting is.
Also what I think is odd, it is frowned upon for men in this country to wear brief swimming wear, yet ladies can expose as much flesh and wear as brief swimwear as they like irrespective of size. This is a case of double standards.

My school is a boys only school and if we forget our sports kit we have to do it in our underwear and this includes swimming. I go commando and sometimes this meant having to swim naked because I had no underwear to use. The first time the teacher was not sure but after that he took it in his stride especially when others claimed the same "problem".

George Spelvin,I agree it was a matter how 'conforming with my contemporaries rather than how much skin is showing'.
Wearing short pants was seen as a symbol of boys'junior status and therefor I was subjected to a considerable amount of teasing.
It was my parents'preference to keep me in short pants and school uniform requirements permitted this abomination.

Thanks again, James!

I find it interesting that your male classmates teased you for coming to school showing your legs, whereas they attended swim class showing a great deal more than that.
That indicates that the important factor is not how much or how little skin one is showing,but rather how well one is conforming with everyone else.
I am reminded of an evening when I was attending a nudist camp.
I decided to take a walk outside the camp, so I put on a T-shirt and shorts.
When I came back, everyone else was gathered around a campfire, and there wasn't a stitch of clothes between all of them.
I felt self-conscious because I wasn't naked.

It is more than 30 years since I left school and I am glad communal naked showers are now a thing of the past. When I think if gymnastics were cancelled we were forced to do swimming in white transparent shorts or if we forgot our white tops we were made to do gymnastics topless. This form of child abuse would not have been permitted for girls and should not have been allowed for boys. Houndsdown school you should be ashamed of yourself. It is time we ended all forms of sexual exploitation by the state.

Children weren't so uptight back then. I once taught swimming, and every 8 weeks there was a "test night" (for gold, silver and bronze Personal Survival badges). One boy forgot his trunks and all I had in lost property was a girl's swimsuit. He willingly agreed to use that, rather than wait another 8 weeks. (Unfortunately though, he still failed on a technicality!)

George Spelvin,I did attend nude swimming classes like the other James and I was allowed to wear a slip for the first few lessons until I got used to swimming nude.
Women teachers were present when attending and it was customary.
The slip that I wore for swimming did leave my bottom absolutely bare and it was never commented on,I was only allowed to wear it for a few swims so I could get used to nude swimming.

Jamie,
When I was at school collective punishments were used as opposed to individuals being punished. If a few lads misbehaved we’d get a warning and if bad behaviour continued we’d all be punished. As we were already stripped to the waist for gym class it wasn’t possible for our PE teachers to threaten us with that, punishments normally consisted of a high volume of push ups, squat thrusts, star jumps until we were really exhausted.

Perhaps our teachers should have singled out the badly behaved lads and made them put a really thick sweatshirt on and then worked them hard. No
one wants to be singled out and made to look different to other kids in their class or year, that punishment would probably have been equally effective.

Being stripped to the waist was a much more comfortable way to do PE, it felt strange at age nine being made to do PE without a vest or a t shirt but we got used to it after the first lesson.

Reading Jason R's recollections from an all boys school, it's interesting that being stripped to the waist was clearly an integral part of punishment. This ties in closely with the practice at my school, although it sounds as if it was overall a bit more relaxed than Jason's. I started in 1989, when I was 12.
We usually wore vest, shorts, trainers (and gym socks) for regular PE lessons but this wasn't the case for PE detentions, which could involve laps of the field, press ups and sit ups, sprints in the gym, or more than one of the above. Sometimes there were shooting challenges with a ball and boys who failed to pass would get extra laps, press ups etc.
For a PE detention, you wore your usual kit - except the vest. Irrespective of whether detention was indoors or outdoors, you did it bare chested. I suppose this was a way of making us feel small and self conscious and, if we were outdoors, it meant other boys could see us and knew we were being punished.
There were also times during a regular PE lesson when a teacher might make you remove your top as a penalty for misbehaviour, not paying attention or something similar. I was made to play rugby bare chested a couple of times for answering back, which wasn't much fun in October or November, and it probably had the desired effect in that I made sure I shut up after that.
It occurs to me this may not have been so effective at a school where boys did PE stripped to the waist all the time!

Yes! However, I swam nude for our public high school boys swim team and boys sem classes starting in 7 the grade. Nude swimming was used with a soap shower before swimming to keep the water clean and cut down on chlorine. It seemed normal at the time because society accepted it as normal. Contrary to what people today think this was considered standard across the US at this time in history. We did not allow ever at any of the schools girls to mix with the all boys nude swim classes and boys swim teams. The pool was just another part of the boys locker room.

Today for some reason swim teams are mostly boys and girls swim teams even though boys are naturally stronger than girls and it would seem only logical to have a separate girls team and a separate boys swim team or swim class. And it does not seem as if anyone takes a shower before swimming today?!?!?!??! I do not understand today's current logic except that we overcorrected to make sure that girls had 24/7 access to all swim pools at all times… they are Co Ed. And at the same time we did not allow the girls to swim nude!?!?! So there are increased costs for pool maintenance today.

Today inspite of better technology for filtration that many people are not taking soap showers and public pools are closed temporarily because the water is not safe or clean and this could easily be fixed with going back to soap showers before swimming.

So I still think there is a case to bring in nude swimming today. Maybe girls are naturally shy so maybe that's why they didn't have nude girls swimsuit? Nude male swimming has been the custom world wide for thousands of years and will continue in some way into the future and nude recreation is common in Europe, France, Australia, New Zealand and other places today.

The question about men swimming nude at beaches ….well it was common and considered normal for men to swim nude, but it was not a law, it was just a custom. We still have nude beaches in many parts of the world today.

Thanks, James!

That clears up a lot of confusion.
I still have a couple of more questions:
Did you attend nude swim classes which were interrupted by women teachers needing to confer with individual students, or was that another James?

And what does a slip look like on the other side?
Does it cover the culo also? Or does it leave it bare like a jockstrap?

I had to grow up under a domineering mother too, so I know how that is.
However, my parents were prudish. I was taught to believe that any desire to look or show was sinful.
So now I am left with a craving to look and show.

So we all have our similarities and our differences.

George Spelvin,further to my previous message I would like to give you a more detailed account of my messages.
-- translucent gym shorts with nothing underneath.
-- being only allowed to wear shorts at home.
-- a school gym with huge windows through which girls could watch the boys.
- swimming class wearing slips at an all boys'school.
The slips that I wore were very miniscule and were triangular at the front with cords that went between the legs and then tied at the waist.
I wore these for ballet and swimming!
-- being forced to wear skimpy shorts until I graduated.

Toby,
My first jockstrap was a Litesome, got it when I was 13 in 1970. At school wearing underpants for PE was not allowed. Nothing was worn under the shorts until you needed support, then you wore a jockstrap. From third form onwards all boys were expected to wear a jockstrap for PE and other sports.

I have heard of boys wearing swimming trunks for support. A friend at another school wore trunks for a while until he got a jockstrap.

George Spelvin,thank you for your interest,some of the messages you refer to are signed by'James B',but I didn't go on a bike ride in a swim suit'or have an'embarrassing medical',however most or the other messages apply to me.

I still have one of these Litesome "antiques"! All nylon. It says "Golf model" on the label at the back. Never knew a supporter was recommended for golf!

Hi Graham,
Litesome never made many "swim Jocks" and so they were rare to find but a friend of mine had one and although they were sung to wear and all nylon to dry fast the waist band was still too wide to wear under swim trunks but fine under swim shorts.

Hello, James!
Hello, moderators!

Is there more than one James on this board?
I am interested in several messages which are signed James, but some of those messages seem to contradict each other.
So I am trying to figure out which messages have been written by which James.
If you are one of the Jameses, I would appreciate it if you could tell me which of these messages you wrote.
If you are the only James and I am mistaken in thinking that there is more than one of you, I would appreciate it if you could write back.
If you are a moderator and have this information handy, I would appreciate it if you could write back.

--proudly riding a bike on Sunday, wearing a swim suit and nothing else (March 18, 2014).
--an embarrassing school medical inspection (May 19, 2014).
--translucent gym shorts with nothing underneath (January 2, 2012; July 18, 2014; September 25, 2014; September 27, 2014; January 28, 2015).
--being allowed to wear only shorts at home (March 28, 2016).
--girls admiring boys who are shirtless for gym class (September 22, 2009; April 7, 2013).
--a school gym with huge windows through which the girls could watch the boys (June 29, 2019).
--towel dancing by boys of the present generation (December 11, 2013).
--nude swimming class at a boarding school (September 6, 2013), which was often interrupted by women teachers ordering individual students to get out of the pool and talk (October 20, 2014; October 28, 2014; October 30, 2014; October 31, 2014), and sometimes visited by a matron who bragged that she had seen every boy who attended the school for the past 12 years (May 28, 2014).
--swimming class wearing slips at an all-boys’ school (February 5, 2017). What ARE slips anyway? You’ll have to excuse me. I’m from the other side of the Atlantic.
--coed dance class which the boys had to attend shirtless (July 26, 2015).
--being forced by his parents to wear skimpy shorts until he graduated. This one I have paginated (February 8, 2014, p. 36; September 4, 2014, p. 33; October 29, 2014, p. 32; November 16, 2014, p. 31; March 30, 2016, p. 25; April 1, 2016, p. 25; December 25, 2017, p. 14; April 8, 2018, p. 11; January 3, 2019, p. 5).

Thank you.

John,
At the time the mixed changing didn't bother me too much, as I was still totally flat-chested when I left primary school and became quite adept at pulling my shorts on before taking off my ordinary skirt or dress. I left primary school in 1971; when were you at primary?

When my son was at primary, the boys and girls got changed in separate areas for the final two years. Even so I remember a couple of the other mums saying they had bought their 9 year old daughters crop tops to wear during the final year of mixed changing. Unlike my classmates, very few wore ordinary vests.

Hi Helen,
Maybe activities wasn't the word I should have used - I meant there were other PE situations where I had to go topless, not only for shirts against skins. For example, outdoor athletics in summer, or there was a gymnastics display where the girls wore leotards and boys wore just shorts.
When I first began to get hair on my chest there were only one or two other lads in the same boat, with more joining us as time went on! By that stage I think we were all used to stripping off in PE; it was a bit different when we started a few years earlier and yes, I certainly felt shy at first when I realised I'd have to go topless. But we just had to get on with it. I dread to think what reaction anyone would have got from the teacher if he'd asked to be excused being a skin on the grounds of not wanting to display his chest hair!

I see a few people have been mentioning Litesome supporters. I still have an "antique" one! It is made of nylon (like the swim version, I suspect, but with a wider waistband). It actually says it's a "golf" model on the back label. I had no idea they were recommended for golf too!

Hi David G,thank you for you reply,I attended secondary school from 1965 to 1970 in the midlands.
Like you we just wore shorts for dance and P.E,but we weren't allowed to wear pumps.

I started at an all boys school in 1988 shortly before my 9th birthday.

Though officially our kit was vest, shorts, trainers the reality was different. We were bare chested indoors and outside. Our PE teachers were all ex Army and didn't hesitate in enforcing a stripped to the waist regime.

It wasn't a warm September when we started and it wasn't long before we were out on the field exercising when the rain came down. Obviously with no vest on it made for quite a tough session but our teacher started to lecture us about the merits of being stripped to the waist! It was warmer in the gym but that only made you sweat quicker and by the halfway point in the lesson the whole class had sweat running down them.

The Head had a novel idea for punishment, you were handed over over to one of the PE teachers in our own time, where anything could happen from running up and down flights of stairs until you were told to stop or you physically couldn't move, then it was freezing shower afterwards, to remedial fitness, including laps of the field, which due to the size of the grounds was never popular amongst the boys or as a friend and I got once to shovel grit into the large bunkers for the winter. Each was done with you baring your upper body and make you "man up"

Helen, you've mentioned lads showing chest hair, a good few of my friends showed their chests off and they said it was a little weird during the first lesson but never bothered them after.

Hi Andrea,
It was girls who had started to mature physically that changed into leotards. I think that it was wrong that girls and boys had to change together in the classroom when we’d reached the age of 10/11. The school should have been designed with a separate girls and boys changing room.

We should not have been allowed to wear the grey shorts that we’d gone to school in, boys should have changed into PE shorts. Most boys were happy to be shirtless for PE and it meant less washing for our mums too.

Dave, Toby: my first jockstraps were Litesom. A bit over-engineered in some ways, and although I once saw a "swim jock" by Litesome, I was never able to get hold of one for myself.

James Hi, as a matter of interest, can I ask what years you went to school? I was in the senior school from 1961-66 in the north of England with a very similar experience to yours, in that boys were bare chested in shorts & pumps only & the girls were wearing much more. Our lessons were separate, to the girls, but occasionally we had lessons together. I don't think it bothered us boys much - but we didn't have a choice anyway.
I seem to recall it was more dance lessons if we were together.

Hi Toby,
Yes I remember the Litesome jockstraps very well and I still have a couple from my school / college days.
It was the first jockstrap that I bought along with some shorts for running when I was 15/16 years old, wearing it felt quite strange at first but after a while I got used to it and felt very grown up I have worn jocks ever since.

Toby.

Hi. Yes, I remember the Litesome jock. My schooldays were in the late 60's / 70's and I only wore a Jock when I later went to college.
If you would like to contact me please feel free.
Michael

Helen,
For outdoor PE and games we could wear PE skirts or culottes and a long sleeved top, but not tracksuit bottoms.
In fact were weren't even allowed to wear tights with our school uniform, just ankle socks in summer and long socks in winter!

With regard to going shirtless in the summer, I was a bit of a tomboy and would sometimes take my shirt of like the boys in the hot summer holidays. The last year I was able to do this was the year we left primary school (ages 11).
By the following summer I had to make sure I was wearing a swimsuit top underneath if I wanted to take my T shirt off.

John,
Was it mainly girls who had started to mature who changed into leotards, or was it younger girls too?

Hi guys
Any of you remember the Litesome jockstrap?